Friday, August 26, 2011

捍卫

我捍卫我的爱情。
决定婚姻,因为我不想失去你!

我捍卫我的婚姻,努力学习当个演员。
演弱者赖着你
演舞姐取悦你
演妈妈照顾你
演外婆疼爱你
演聋子什么都听不见
演瞎子关一只眼、闭一只眼
演哑巴吃黄连,有苦自己知

爱什么时候变得不再单纯;不再简单了?

挑起

今天在车上听98.8晨宝健美的节目。节目里叙述着一女听众寻求意见的信。信上说她的未婚夫与女同事在面子书上公然调情搞暧昧。面子书上的留言内容有如“他”的生日来临了“她”会送什么礼物,然后“她”回说把自己当成生日礼物送给“他”;“她”一个人看电影很孤单想要“他”陪伴等等。这些内容的确让人认为“他们”是有一些“东西”!女听众与未婚夫即将在年底结婚了,她想知道应该要怎么做?

这节目是公开让听众打电话来提出意见的。第一男听众:“无可否认男人都是口贱的,喜欢口头上挑逗女生,与女生保持暧昧的关系就好像似有似无一般的感觉。这种感觉会让男人觉得自己很有魅力。但是,男人会和一女生保持暧昧的关系也就代表他对这女生是有不一样的感觉。”,“最好先看清楚那未婚夫吧!或者再看其他他与他人的留言是否都是如此呢?”。

第二男听众:“男人是口贱的,都喜欢在口头上占女生便宜。有时候是说者无心听者有意啦!”,“如果她的未婚夫对所有人都是这样的话,就表示那是他的个性。最好先问清楚吧!女人都是介意男人口花花的,如果不介意就完蛋囖。”

第三女听众:“既然在公开的网上调情就知道所有人会看见,先问清楚那个未婚夫关于留言的事件。我相信那个未婚夫是一个口花花的人。”。 主持人问:“你的丈夫是一个口花花的人吗?”。 女听众:“我已经离婚了。前夫和女性朋友是互传调情及暧昧的简讯。很多时候公开的事情不可怕,最可怕的是那些暗地里的实情。”。 主持人问:“你是怎么发现的?”。 女听众:“在怀孕期间,某天三更半夜里他的手机突然有简讯就去看了一下才发现的。过后我有给那女人打电话问清楚他们的关系。”

Saturday, June 25, 2011

其实他并不喜欢你

梁朝伟说过:男人如果爱你,那你就一定会感觉到。

一部美国刚上映的电影,叫《He's Just Not That Into You》,其实他没那么喜欢你。

“所有未婚女青年都该去看一下这部电影。”

世界上,几乎每一个角落里,都有女生在问:

“为什么他没有给我打电话”?“为什么他不来找我?”“为什么他突然失去了联系?”

然后,这样的女生身边,总有一群劝解她的死党好友。

好友总是说,“他这样做只是因为太爱你了”,“也许他害羞”,“也许他自卑”,“也许他不知道怎么联络你”,“相信我,他肯定是喜欢你的”…

女人们只想赶快让姐妹们笑起来,却很少想该怎么让她们清醒。

事实是,也许他只是不想找你。

电影说,如果一个男人真的喜欢你,他会动用一切力量去找到你,手机,email,msn,……

这已经不是石器时代了,真正喜欢你,即便经历海啸、洪水,即使你消失在人海,大海捞针他依然会找到你。

如果他答应你的事却没有做到,哪怕那只是一个电话。

不要给他找借口,“他真的很忙所以忘了”、“至少他真的与我道歉了”……

他很忙,你也不轻松,有谁不忙?

是忙到即将就任美国总统,还是一个小时有好几亿的生意要谈?

有手机、有快速拨号、甚至有语音拨号

如果真的喜欢你就不会忘记,如果忘记说明他不在乎你失望。

男人对自己想要的东西是永远不会说“忙”的。

如果他暧昧不清。

不要替他解释:“他以前受过伤”、“他刚刚分手/离婚,他想慢慢来”、“他习惯了自由”…

一个男人若是真的喜欢你,就不会暧昧不清,就会昭告天下对你的所有权。

如果喜欢你,但由于私人原因想慢慢来,他会立即把这一点明确告诉你。

他不会让你猜来猜去,因为他不想让你失落而离他而去。

如果他不愿意见你的朋友和家人,他不愿意带你走进他的圈子,

说因为这只是两个人的事,那么请自动翻译成“我只想用你来消磨时间”“我不太喜欢你”。

如果他背叛你。

不要去想:“他喝多了”、“那只是偶尔出现的意外”、“他是不小心的”…背叛没有借口。

背叛这种事情是不会“不小心就发生”的,他不可能说“噢,我不小心摔了一跤,正好摔到别人床上去了。”

如果他都喝得醉醺醺才来找你,而不愿意在清醒时为你改变,那么就该离开,

因为长远的生活是需要清醒的。

如果时机成熟但他依然不想结婚,也许仅仅意味着“不想和你结婚”,

那些说“不想结婚”的人最后一定会结婚,只是不是和你。

如果他不断的与你分手,然后又来找你和好。

如果他突然莫名其妙的消失了。

如果他是已婚。

那么多那么多的如果,其实都只有一个答案。 他并没有那么喜欢你

有时我们宁愿相信一个男人太害怕、太紧张、太爱前女友、太敏感、太忙、童年阴影太多、太累……

却不愿意看清很简单的事实。

是的,他不是太忙,不是受过伤,

不是有童年阴影,不是遇到了意外,

不是手机掉进了火锅,不是有健忘症,

更不是你已经坚强到可以令他不担心,他只是没有那么喜欢你而已。

于是有人问说,要怎么去相信,他是喜欢你的。

在这个所有规则都可以被打破,所有道德都在慢慢消散的世界里,要怎么去坚定地相信?

请你,永远别相信规则,相信自己的感觉。

我想这个时代更需要一点自欺欺人,告诉我们自己他其实很爱你,

叫你放心投入地去对待一个人,没有怀疑没有疑问揣测跟试探。

还记得我们说过的“拼命奔跑,华丽跌倒”..

在爱情里,也请勇敢地、坚定地、拼命奔跑吧,然后,即使跌掉,你也可以说,自己是华丽的。

《He's Just Not That Into You》里,我最爱的一段台词。

那是名叫Gigi的女生,在误会一个男生喜欢她,

然后表白之后发现是误会,被男生冷嘲热讽之后,说的一段话。

Gigi说:

我也许是太敏感太会小题大做,但至少那意味着我还在乎。

你以为用上这些所有能看透女生的规则你就赢了吗?

你也许不会再受伤,也不会再让自己出糗尴尬,但是你也永远不会再体会到那样的爱。

你不是赢,是孤独。

也许,我做了很多很傻的事情,可是我知道,这样的我会比你更快找到那个对的人。

相信自己的感觉,喜欢自己的人生。

也许所谓的happy ending并没有包括要给你一个perfect guy,

也许所谓的幸福结局,就是抱着永不放弃的希望,继续前行。

by特木薯


这是从面子书上抄袭下来的文章。

每一句都刺中我的心。

痛,慢慢的扩散。

泪,不知不觉的流下。


为什么又一次的选择原谅?

原谅了,能再次的相信吗?

相信,是再给过一次机会伤害吗?

开始茫然了。。。


脑袋内的天使与恶魔在交战。

天使:“爱,就要努力!”

恶魔:“屁!给机会践踏你的爱!”

天使:“要相信他。”

恶魔:“信,所以才会痛苦啊!”

天使:“人不是完美的。你要宽容、包容与退让。”

恶魔:“你是眼瞎了才看不见吧!”

天使与恶魔分不出胜负。


唉~

我想时间会让人清醒吧!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Sakura Cafe

Sakura Cafe is located at 163-169 Jalan Imbi 55100 Kuala Lumpur. I heard the Sakura Cafe is famous with it's house nasi lemak (steamed rice cood in coconut milk). Passed by this cafe many times but never got chance to try it out. Finally, husband and I visited the Sakura Cafe on last Tuesday.


Black Jerry Ice (Left) - RM4.00; Korean Citron Tea (Right) - RM8.00
Woo......Never thought the common drinks can charged so expensive! Almost triple price charged of other restaurants.

Nasi Lemak - RM14.80 per pax. Steamed coconut milk rice served with chicken curry, ikan bilis (fried Anchovies), prawn sambal, achar, hard boiled eggs and cucumber.

Nasi Bojari - RM23.00 per pax. Indonesia colored tasty rice with asam prawn, beef rendang and fried chicken drumstick.

Desert - Cendol with coconut sugar. It's a complementary of Nasi Bojari.

Overall, I would like to say this restaurant is just for non-Malaysian tourist because we can get the same but taste nicer food with cheaper price at the food court in shopping mall.

Ah Wang Bak Kut Teh @ Old Klang Road

Ah Wang Bak Kut Teh at No. 32, Batu 4 1/2, Jalan Klang Lama, Kuala Lumpur. It famous with the steamed fish head and not the Bak Kut Teh. Funny right?

Many customer during the dinner times. Do not worry about the car park. The workers will search a strategic place for your car.

Bak Kut Teh - RM9.00 , for 1 pax. We ordered the smallest portion, just want to try the food taste. Because we heard the Bak Kut Teh is OK only. And we proved it's really OK only. Mm....not to say tasteless, just not that strong like others.

For your information, Bak Kut Teh is Pork Ribs Tea (literally translated). The specialty of Bak Kut Teh is the soup. It made from pork ribs which is simmered in a collection of Chinese herbs for several hours.

Vegetables - RM7.00 (Medium). For sure, we will ordered a plate of vegetables.

Steamed fish head with minced ginger - RM25.00 (Medium), for 3 - 4 pax. There are variety choices of cooking style. We order the fish steamed with minced ginger. The fish is very fresh! Soft! Delicious! Very yummy! Drolling~~ when talk about it again. No wonder so many people recommend about the steamed fish head here. OMG! feel hungry now :p

Sunday, February 13, 2011

狐狸精?Baby Face?

Went to FotoPrime in Cheras and saw this pub - Baby Face, at the next shop lots. I guess it only open at night /o_o\. Feel funny with it's Chinese signboard, 狐狸精. It's used to scold those women whom seduce other's husband.

Mm.....I don't think women like their husband visit this shop :p

Tenji2 @ Puchong












Went to Tenji2 at Puchong. This is a Japanese Buffet Restaurant. The first Tenji is located at Mont Kiara. Due to new opening, we only pay RM50 per pax with voucher bought in advanced.

Not much food served compared to the HQ at Mont Kiara.

Madam Chong's Prawn Noodles House

Honey Green Tea (C - RM3.50; H - RM2.50)

Specialty Prawn Noodle (S-RM9.90; B-RM10.90)
There are four Big Prawn served. Freshness is acceptable. Mm....soup is a bit salty.

For your information, prawn noodle soup is very important in this food. It's cooked with fried prawn head and shell. Spread some fried onion will improve the tastier of soup.

Dried Noodle (S-RM5.50; B-RM6.50)
Simple enough. Noodle cooked and mixed with dark soy sauce.

Madam Chong's Prawn Noodles House is located at 22, Dinasti Sentral, Jln Kuchai Maju 19, Off Jalan Kuchai, 52200 Kuala Lumpur. Overall of the food is considered moderate. Price charged is a bit high. Luckily, there is no service tax charged. Will not recommend to friend.

Sushi Tomo @ SS2 PJ

This Sushi Tomo is a Japanese Restaurant with air-cond and located at 8, Jalan SS2/67, 47300 Petaling Jaya, Selangor. Environment is good and comfortable. Once you enter the restaurant, waiters will greet you friendly :)

Green Tea RM1.50
I realized that different restaurant served with different cup.

Okonomi Yaki RM 12.90 per portion.
Restaurant menu is in Japanese language. I can't read Japanese just simply order this Okonomi Yake (Side Order) because it marked as famous food. Is a Japanese Pizza (vegetable and minced meat). How's the food taste?? Well, I still prefer Korean Pizza :p

Nabe Yaki Udon RM18.50 per portion.
It also marked as Famous Food. Ordered by cousin. The soup is quite tasty but Udon (noodle) is overcooked. Felt being cheated by the food illustrations in menu. Not worth for the price charged.


Tempura Udon RM 18.50 per portion.
Same thing. The Udon is overcooked. Soup is tasty. Tempura - fried vege and prawn with special paste. Not really like it because it fried with thick paste :( and the freshness of prawn is just acceptable.